How do you cope in the day-time?

We see a lot about lack of sleep, but not so much on the effects this has on our every day waking lives. It seems this is the crunch-line in fact – How do you cope on little or no sleep? Any strategies for keeping going?

Posted 30 Nov 2011 at 3:16 PM
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  • Sleepio Member

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    If I don't keep active, I sometimes find myself nodding off. That's not only physical activity. As long as I'm actively doing something that requires concentration or activity, I can get by.

    I sit down with nothing to do (like on a city bus), I fall right asleep.

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi , actually I have had similar physical issues after 3-4 nights of no sleep, but mine is accompanied by overwhelming feelings of nausea, which drives me to bed and totals my day, I don't usually physically get nauseated just the sensation that it's going to occur and can't really eat anything but ginger ale and boiled potato .

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi there, I would be interested in finding out how others cope with work after only a few hours sleep. I've had chronic insomnia for 5 years now and the days where I've only slept a few hours the night before are like slow torture. I find it difficult to concentrate and it affects my mood at work. It's getting to the stage now where I wonder how long I will be able to keep this up for jobwise as I'm finding it very difficult to cope. Any advice would be much appreciated.

  • Sleepio Member

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    OMG! A Hangover! That is exactly how I feel constantly!

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi there. Not sure if this is the best place to respond to your query but it sounds as though you have the same issue as me! How are you getting on? Have you found that you're sleeping a bit better now?

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi there, thanks for getting in touch. A community like this makes it easier to know you're not the only one feeling like this! I'm sorry to hear you're having similar issues as me – it's not nice is it!?
    I've been doing Sleepio for 5 weeks now and feel it is helping a little although I do have good and bad nights still but my overall sleep time has increased slightly but still not where I want it to be.
    In addition to Sleepio I ended up going to my Dr's and getting some sleeping tablets – I've got some big events at work and I plan on taking these only to get me through the next day. So far I've only taken one and I managed to get a good nights sleep to get me through the next work day. I don't want to rely on these and don't plan on taking many more – I got to the point with work that anything I could do to get me through the next month would be worth it. I hit a pretty low point where I was thinking of giving up work altogether due to my insomnia as I was struggling to cope.
    Things are a bit better though now and I'm trying to put some of the techniques I'm learning through Sleepio into practice. I tend to put the day to rest before bed as suggested by Prof as well as some of the imagery techniques to help relax as I get extremely anxious at bed time due to the fear of not sleeping.
    I also tried sleep restriction for a week and managed a sleep efficiency of 90% – I haven't stuck to it though as I had some big work events coming up but I plan on perservering when things calm down at work.
    I also find this community helpful – I've found insomnia a lonely place to be and it's good to be able to chat to others in the same position and also hear about the positive success stories too.
    So it's a battle but I will keep on going and am heading slowly in the right direction!

    How are you finding Sleepio?

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi sleepy, I am one of the grads and I am so happy to tell you that sleepio works. But getting to graduation (week 6) doesn't mean that you will be sleeping like a baby by then, it basically means that Prof has given you all the learning curves that you need to know and then it is down to practice.

    My early days in sleepio were unpleasant to say the least, up and down the stairs at night because I couldn't sleep, and if I did sleep the alarm went to wake me up!

    But perseverance is key sleepy, and so is keeping in touch with the community. 'Ask the grads', 'how did you sleep last night' and 'grad common room' are good sights to go on. Also just leaving a message so it goes across the screen.

    One thing I found very helpful when I went to bed was to concentrate on my breathing, that way I didn't have to have anything going through my mind and it stopped my mind from racing. I still do it some nights, depends on whether I am lucky enough to fall straight to sleep or not. I still use PR.

    So since joining sleepio at the end of June 2015, I am no longer a nervous wreck, I am no longer an insomniac, and I no longer suffer with anxiety and panic attacks and I no longer take any sleep aids. And that was all because I followed Prof to the letter, I persevered through the really bad times with the help of the community and I continue to use my new found knowledge of having a bed time and getting up time plus lots of other things I learnt along the way.

    So good luck and do your best sleepy.

    Ve

  • Sleepio Member

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    I just started the program. My problem is that I am really tired at 9:30PM. I got to sleep for 15 – 20 minutes and I wake up refreshed and I can't got to sleep until 2:30AM. I find if I eat. I can got sleep quicker. I also wake up several times additional times at night. Does anyone have the problem of waking up from a short nap and no being able to sleep until 2:30AM. BH

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi all, I'm very glad to have joined the club!

    Just coming to the end of my first week of keeping a sleep diary… I've never done this before, and it's pretty shocking just how little sleep i'm getting. After more than a decade of this, like others have said before, I'm generally pretty resigned to the fact that i'm not going to sleep well – and try not to let it make me anxious. I try not to moan about lack of sleep – and just keep it to myself if others have a moan. I have tried various sleeping remedies, sleep hygiene and mindfulness in the past…nothing has worked reliably. I'm liking the general ethos of Sleepio, and i'm committed to giving it a serious go.

    Day to day I think i function reasonably well given my accumulated sleep debt. I'm love to socialise, and most of the time I completely forget about it. Main issues for me are concentration when reading/writing documents at work – as well as a general lack of enthusiasm/motivation (mainly at work). These days I can also be guilty of a lack of empathy with others, particularly if people have a tendency to be dramatic – i find that especially wearying, and there's no quicker way to lose my interest!

    My eyes burn a lot of the time with tiredness – has anyone found anything that helps with this? Eye drops maybe? Thanks!

  • Sleepio Member

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    You just learn to get on with it,I've had sleep problems for 30 years and find that my mind and body do cope I don't worry about it, hate it but don't worry!.....but I have 6 night of maybe 2-3 hours sleep and then sheer exhaustion can give me a full night of unbroken sleep….always have a thumping headache after full night though

  • Sleepio Member

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    I used to be so groggy during the day. Since I started the Sleepio program I can think clearly and have energy. I never realized how many times I woke up during a night. Took about 2 weeks in the program.

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi. I'm just coming up to the end of week 4. Like you I find it really difficult not to fall asleep in the evening, especially if I am reading or watching TV. The only thing I find is getting up and moving around or doing an adult colouring or some other fairly mindless task – anything that stops me falling asleep before I should because that really does affect my night's sleep.
    I do find the SR hard – the hardest being the staying up much later than I have ever done on a regular basis. Getting up early I've not usually found a problem but I am struggling a bit now. However I'm going to stick with it as I am sleeping for longer chunks for some of the time and I see this as a positive, even though I am not yet benefitting by feeling more awake and refreshed during the day.
    Good luck. I do find reading and responding to how others are getting on very helpful so thanks!

  • Sleepio Member

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    Fresh air. Ideally an hour at least walking or sitting in the forest or at the beach, but even a few minutes on break at work helps me.

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hi everyone, I've just started Sleepio and feeling very despondent this morning after a very bad night. I've been practising sleep restriction for a while now, though not as rigorously as I know I need to, hence joining Sleepio.

    I was doing a bit better last week – less anxious about going to bed, getting a fairly safe 3 or 4 hours sleep.

    Yesterday I did a pilates class and swam during the day, and was falling asleep infront of the tv by 11pm. To force myself to stay up I got up and cleaned the kitchen and baked. Went to bed at 1am and was awake most of the night.

    I feel absolutely dreadful this morning and worried about getting through the day without yelling at my daughter Feeling very grumpy, irritable, physically shattered, very sad, heart racing. Lots to do and not sure how I'll cope. Thought it might help to reach out to the community. Please send me positive vibes!

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    Hi, I am on Week 3 and struggling badly with daytime sleepiness. To be honest it's infinitely preferable to the 'permanently wired' state I was in a month or so ago, but it's proving very difficult to concentrate on work.

    I'm on 15 mg Mirtazapine for anxiety, and those of you familiar with the drug will know that it can have a sedative effect. I take it at night and while I'm not sure it does sedate me at all, I'm wondering whether this excessive sleepiness during the day is not just because of sleep restriction (I am getting an average of 4 hours sleep, so could be worse), but also Mirtazapine side effects?

  • Sleepio Member

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    Hot yoga saves me when I have my worst of days. Deep stretching in the heat invigorates your body and brain. It's my “go to”. Infrared heat is wonderfully therapeutic.

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    I started Sleepio about 3 weeks ago. My sleep hygiene was seriously lacking and I've improved this now. I'm on SR but it's manageable. I've taken Zopiclone for about 10 years and am now reducing the doses & hoping to sleep without medication eventually. I use PR and imagery techniques to get to sleep and when I wake up in the night. My sleep has began to improve and I'm hopeful and positive for the first time in many years that I'm getting to he stage where going to bed and getting some sleep isn't a dread. This problem has had a major impact on my life and I'm so pleased that I'm doing something positive to address this. I urge anyone starting the course to stick with it!

  • Sleepio Member

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    I have to be very strict with myself to keep busy and active during the day. When I'm tired I relax by sitting down read or do some simple task but try not to sleep. I try to take in as much sun and daylight as possible and get fresh air. Keep away from caffeine from 3pm onwards. Try to keep positive!

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    I can fully relate to you. Do you work from home or an office? When I feel like this I have to mentally tell myself “you will survive” and try to get through the day. You may not have time, but I find soaking in a very hot tub with Epson salts relieves the achy, exhausted feeling. I cannot tell you how many days the last year I've felt like you. It's hard because I don't share this with people at work as they just cannot related. Then they tell me to take melatonin or something else that doesn't work for me. I wish you luck, but stretching, fresh air will help a bit.

  • Sleepio Member

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    I was on a lower dosage of Mirtazapine and had it combined w/klonopin and for about a month it knocked me straight out and then quickly lost potency – however, I did feel extremely hung over the next day and found it hard to wake up until mid-afternoon, despite getting enough sleep on that combination.
    fyi…mirtazapine is also used as an anti-depressant and appetite stimulant.

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